Aging with RAZ

Grooming for men with dementia

Maintaining a familiar grooming routine can help someone with dementia feel more comfortable, confident, and independent. Using the same products and habits he relied on before his diagnosis may reduce confusion or fear caused by change. By keeping the routine as consistent as possible, you can support his ability to care for himself for longer while also making caregiving easier.

🪒 Let’s look at shaving:
In the early stages of dementia, he may only need gentle reminders to get him to shave.

➡️ As the disease progresses:
Perfection ends here. He needs help. Grooming takes more time and patience. Keep it simple.
If he uses an electric razor, he may be able to use it by himself because it has a large handle and requires little dexterity.

Once he is having difficulties, you may need to guide his hand to get him going. Does he use a pre-shave lotion before using the electric razor? If yes, you may need to guide him through applying it.

➡️ When it is time for you to take over:
Use an electric razor. Use gentle, but firm circular motions. If he is becoming anxious, have a second electric shaver available for him to hold. Turn the electric shaver he is holding on so that he connects the two activities—you are shaving him while he is holding the other shaver. Pay attention to his body language. If he is agitated, choose to pick another day or time of day when he is more fresh.

If he prefers razors, use a safety razor. There are disposable safety razors that contain shaving cream in the handle for easy use.

If using a razor, drape a warm towel across his chest, tucked up under his chin to catch the water. Use a warm, wet washcloth to wet his beard. Apply the shaving cream. Shave in the direction the hair is growing in short strokes. Rinse the razor often. Be careful when shaving sensitive areas. When finished shaving, rinse his face with a fresh, warm washcloth and pat his skin dry. After shave is optional.

💡 When you shave him, smile, relax, play music. Celebrate the small moments. Your support preserves his dignity. That matters more than doing things perfectly.